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Ask all of your romance questions to our local Guru, Amy Barraj.

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'All opinions from Guru experts are based on available and presented information. The expressed opinions are not a substitute for medical or psychological care and should not be viewed as such.'

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written by AmyB , August 28, 2008
How does a single mom get back into the scene in the burbs?
written by Jeannie Miss , August 26, 2008
Hi,
I am now single and a mom. I still live in the suburbs. All of my friends are married. All of my neighbors are married. All of my co-workers are married. You get where I am going with this...

I need to get out. Get back into the dating scene. Where do I start? Help.

Dear Jeannie Miss,

Firstly, I applaud you for wanting to get back into the dating scene. Some women simply give up, and devote themselves 24/7 to their children. This only seriously sabotages your chance to find romance and lasting happiness.

That said, I totally understand how daunting it might seem to get back into dating. You didn't mention your age, or your children's ages. Regardless, it takes confidence to put yourself back out there, especially if you've lost some of that edge during the separation/divorce. Believe me, I know that all too well!

It's vitally important to feel good about yourself first. That helps ensure that you will attract the right people into your circle. Knowing who you are, and what you want allows you to weed out the undesirables! Make a list of the qualities you are looking for you in a partner; and don't forget to make your own list of qualities! Remind yourself often just how much you have to offer someone! People will notice you when you carry yourself well, wear a smile, give off good energy. It's a natural attractant!

Dating services are full of success stories. Match.com and EHarmony are a couple that have been endorsed by many. Get involved in community activities. I'm guessing there are lots of single Dads out there as well!

Be positive. Timing can be everything, and you will certainly meet the right person when you are ready.
How does a single mom get back into the scene in the burbs?
written by Jeannie Miss , August 26, 2008
Hi,
I am now single and a mom. I still live in the suburbs. All of my friends are married. All of my neighbors are married. All of my co-workers are married. You get where I am going with this...

I need to get out. Get back into the dating scene. Where do I start? Help.
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written by AmyB , August 05, 2008
Oh My God
written by Patti R , August 04, 2008
I am still cringing after reading that.

Dear Patti,

LOL! Don't be put off by what you read! And please remember that you can have a perfectly wonderful and satisfying intimate life without ever experiencing different types of orgasms.
Oh My God
written by Patti R , August 04, 2008
I am still cringing after reading that.
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written by AmyB , August 03, 2008
Squirters? Anyone?
written by Barb@ashburn , August 02, 2008
One of my college girl friends used to talk about how she squirted just like a man. Am I supposed to? How? Why?

Hi Barb,

Another great question! Squirting is also referred to as female ejaculation, and some women do experience this regularly. It's been said that some 20-40% of women have reported this. Don't be alarmed if it happens; in some cases it can be quite slight, or you could actually feel quite a strong 'gush' of liquid. But many women have never experienced this type of ejaculation at all, and that's perfectly normal, too.

Women have para-uretheral glands that fill up with fluid during sexual arousal. Rhythmic contractions of the pelvic muscle during orgasm can expel the fluid. In some women, the amount can be considerable. Stimulation of the G-spot, that highly sensitive area that is a result of swelling of the para-urethral glands, is a contributor to female ejaculation. Most women who report this gushing sensation have also reported strong G-spot orgasms.

It's worth exploring, on your own or with a toy, or with your partner. (Keep a towel handy!) At the very least, read more about G-spot orgasms.

And remember, there is no "supposed to" when it comes to sex. Do what feels good, and enjoy. Thanks for your question!



Squirters? Anyone?
written by Barb@ashburn , August 02, 2008
One of my college girl friends used to talk about how she squirted just like a man. Am I supposed to? How? Why?
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written by AmyB , July 02, 2008

Initially, the G-spot will feel like a small mass of rigid, firm tissue about the size of a dime. Stroke the upper vaginal wall with your finger, pressing around and feeling for this small mass of tissue. Remember: The vaginal canal doesn’t have many nerve endings. When you experience new, unique feelings, you’ve likely found the G-spot.

The G-spot’s location differs from woman to woman, so take your time and discover the location of your personal pleasure spot. It could take many sessions of playing and experimenting with your G-spot to really feel these sensations from stimulation, so be patient. Some women need to be “filled up” with a G-spot toy to enjoy it.

I hope that helps!! it is certainly worth exploring, so try setting off some additional fireworks over the 4th of July weekend!!
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written by AmyB , July 02, 2008

Okay Amy I have a question-is the G-spot a myth and if not are there things my partner and I can do to bring it on?

Dear HC,

I'm glad you asked!! And I'm happy to report that yes, Virginia, there really is a G-spot!! I have a lot of info for you, so this will be a 2-part answer.

G-spot stimulation is a great pleasure for some women; for others, it’s a new, unexplored pleasure spot. If you’re a newcomer to G-spot stimulation, don’t be intimidated. This erogenous zone often needs lots of practice to successfully stimulate it, but the extra effort can be well worth your time. In addition to the G-spot, there’s a range of possible pleasure spots that can be vaginally sensitive. Each woman’s G-spot and pleasure areas will be uniquely situated. Some women even find the back of the vagina wall sensitive. Don’t limit yourself to just one spot!


The Elusive G-spot
written by HC , July 01, 2008
Okay Amy I have a question-is the G-spot a myth and if not are there things my partner and I can do to bring it on?
Press Release
written by AmyB , June 29, 2008
LAS VEGAS, June 18 /PRNewswire/ -- Passion Parties, a direct selling company of
sensual products designed to promote intimacy and communication between couples, premiered on E! Entertainment's newest hit reality show, "Denise Richards: It's Complicated" on Sunday, June 15, 2008.

Actress and former model, Denise Richards, hosted her first "Passion Party" with her
sister and friends on the reality show. Pat Davis, president of Passion Parties and author of the Random House best-selling book, "The Passion Parties Guide to Great Sex," conducted the party while showcasing the company's signature body products and passion essentials.

"Who would have thought this is what I needed...to get me out of my rut?" Denise Richards asked.

"A Passion Party is just what every woman needs to have fun with her girlfriends and
discover her inner Passion Diva. Denise was very receptive to the party, toys and
education. A lot of times, single mothers tend to get bogged down with the daily routine
of being a mother, forgetting about themselves and their own needs. Denise is just like every other woman with children," said Pat Davis. "She's just trying to be the best
mother, daughter and woman she can be."

Passion Parties, Inc. leads the party planning industry as the premier supplier of sensual products in the United States and Canada. The company, founded by women for women in 1994, has experienced rapid growth and continued success. Informative Passion Parties create a unique environment for women that is fun, educational and confidential. Women feel comfortable discussing their sexual health, dispelling age-old myths surrounding sexuality, and learning ways to improve communication and build stronger relationships with their partners. With more than 65,000 women having joined the company as consultants since 1994, Passion Parties offers women the opportunity to own and manage their own business, while promoting sexual awareness and well-being.

Profits from the sale of the book are donated to Passion Parties Charitable Foundation, a 501(c)(3) organization that benefits charities supporting women, children and families in the United States and Canada.
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