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I remember making promises on those sun-drenched beaches to one day expose our future children to new cultures in lifechanging destinations. We met families traveling with infants, toddlers and older kids who made it look easy. Their children splashed happily in the pool and sat quietly during meals. There was no doubt in our minds that our children would be sophisticated world travelers. Then we became parents of two rambunctious boys and realized our lofty aspirations would have to wait until they were older…much older. My kids can make a trip to the grocery store in a mini-van equipped with a DVD player look more difficult than crossing the Atlantic Ocean in a canoe.
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Fifty percent of marriages stay together— through sickness and through health, until ultimately death does them part. Nearly all of us walk down that aisle with the intention of being part of this exclusive group. Unfortunately, nearly half of us don't make the cut. If there were only some kind of blueprint to a successful marriage, a list of rules we could follow to remain as happy and in love as the day we said “I do.” Well, perhaps there is one, and maybe it's not as complicated as you imagined it would be to follow.
Simply start by memorizing this alliterative string of words: communication, compassion, courage, and compromise. Got it? Good. Now apply those four words to your own marriage. Believe it or not, the four C’s will provide a framework for you before and during your marriage. You have already heard that marriage can be difficult, but don’t forget it can also be one of the most rewarding adventures of your lifetime.
If you find yourself looking for a celebration beyond the Jordan Almond variety white wedding, you’re in good company. A Google search for “alternative weddings” will yield approximately 70 million hits. Scouring the information, you’ll find ideas from the gothic cemetery wedding (yes, the officiant will carry a scythe), to boutique, glamour-camping weddings in Ireland.
New Yorkers are getting hitched on the subway, and cyclists are saying “I do” on cross-country rides. There are suggestions for planning civil unions, commitment ceremonies, elopements, encore and destination weddings. Vow-renewal packages are offered from Vegas to Jamaica. And forget cupcakes. Parisian inspired doughnuts are the pièce de résistance – the ultimate, deepfried confection.
I am married to my high school sweetheart, Jon. I fell in love with him in 10th grade. Twenty-five years ago we got married right out of college and took these simple vows: I take you to be my wedded wife/husband, to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish ‘till death do us part. Saying the words in front of hundreds of friends and family was the easy part. Living those vows every day for the past 25 years has been hard work worth doing.
To Have and to Hold
We decided to view marriage as an adventure. The day after we got married, we took our wedding gift money and headed East in a borrowed car. It took us three days just to get from our hometown in Illinois to Ohio – we were newlyweds, and we had more important things to do than driving the open road. One morning Jon called the consulting firm where he interned to tell them we would be in the area. As I sat on the hood of the car eating an Egg McMuffin, he stepped into the “Clark Kent” style phone booth. After a couple of minutes he said, “Hey Trish, they offered me a job. It pays $16,000 per year. Want to move to Washington, D.C.?” So we plunked down all of our cash on an apartment in D.C., drove back to Illinois, packed everything we owned into half of a small Ryder truck, bought a car with nothing but our word and our smiles and began that adventure.
The times have certainly changed. In the 1800s, the bridal shower was originally an occasion where women helped pay a bride’s dowry, but this has transformed over the years into “showering” the bride with domestic supplies from crock pots and ironing boards to a naughty negligee and heated massage oils.
There are a lot of details that go into planning an unforgettable bridal shower from choosing a location and theme to managing the guest list, but there is no reason to panic. There is a theme that will match your bride’s personality perfectly, and this “No Boys Allowed” time will be just what she needs before her big day!