
The conception of Octo-mom has spawned a misconception of in-vitro fertilization (IVF). Poor judgment on the part of the fertility doc who implanted six embryos into a woman under thirty-five, coupled with a one-in-a-gazillion chance of eight live births, has vilified IVF and propelled it to the front lines of a red-hot debate.
When I watched Ann Curry's interview with Nadya Suleman, I got a sick feeling in the pit of my stomach. I thought, "This is gonna start an uproar in the infertility world." I personally have nothing but good things to say about IVF, based on my own experience. I feel for my sisters in infertility who grieve every time they pass a pregnant woman in the grocery store, who'd rather have a root canal without novocaine than open up a baby shower invitation. I KNOW their pain.I recently learned that a Republican Senator, Ralph Hudgens, is sponsoring a Georgia bill called The Ethical Treatment of Embryos Act (SB 169) that would limit the number of embryos transferred in an IVF cycle to two for a woman under forty-years-old and three for a woman over forty. Also, the bill would limit the number of embryos created in the cycle to the number transferred. This would, in essence, prevent a woman from freezing unused embryos, thus creating the necessity to "start from scratch" in a future IVF cycle (more headaches, more costs). An IVF cycle costs $10,000 to $15,000 a pop, and currently, only fourteen states in the US offer coverage for infertility treatment.
Imagine a thirty-nine year old woman without fertility coverage plunking down her life's savings (especially in this dismal economy!), turning her thighs into a black-and-blue pin cushion, and watching her personality change to resemble Regan from the Exorcist (because of the use of fertility drugs), for a whopping 20% chance of achieving a pregnancy (odds of success at that age are roughly 10% per embryo transferred, at best). I think not.
I can only question how a sixty-five-year-old male senator can remotely relate to the anguish of a woman with infertility issues.
The current American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) IVF guidelines are as follows:
1. Under 35 yrs. : 1-2 embryos transferred
2. 35-37 yrs.: 2-3 embryos transferred
3. 38-40 yrs.: 3-4 embryos transferred
4. >40 yrs.: Up to 5 embryos transferred
5. Prior failed IVF cycle or a less than favorable prognosis: Additional embryos transferred according to individual circumstances (following appropriate consultation).
At age thirty-nine during the time of my second IVF attempt, a prior pregnancy loss due to severe chromosomal problems in the fetus (Trisomy 13), five early miscarriages, one failed intrauterine insemination (IUI), and a miscarriage resulting from a pre-implantation genetic diagnosis (PGD) IVF (where the embryos are screened for the major chromosomal issues before transfer), I would say that I fell into category five of the ASRM guidelines ("less than favorable prognosis"). Thus, I had five embryos transferred after my infertility doctor agreed, "it was not unreasonable given my age and history". Needless to say, my husband Mark's face went as white as the sheet I was wrapped in on the exam table.
I hit the jackpot and got pregnant (with a singleton), and am convinced that had I not put in five embryos, my precious son would not be here today.
Don't get me wrong. I don't agree with what was done in Nadya Suleman's case (as her circumstances were vastly different from mine). I believe the ASRM guidelines should be enforced, but that legislation should not be introduced that could jeopardize a woman's chances of realizing her dream.
Suzanne Rhodes lives in South Riding and is the mother of three children, ages 4, 10, and 20. She has chronicled her four-year pregnancy loss, infertility, and general "hard luck" journey and what she and other women like her can do to increase their odds/deal with the hardship in a book titled The Little Embryo that Could: Conquering Genetic Termination, Secondary Infertility, and Other Injustices. The book is due to be published summer of 2009.
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IVF is not the enemy
written by Denise , March 26, 2009
written by Denise , March 26, 2009
Since first hearing of the birth of the babies, I have been outraged of the unethical practices of the fertility doctor!! Kudos to you on this article. I agree, IVF is such a wonderful thing, and it should be used for people who need it, not for people who want to be in the media spotlights for their 15 minutes.
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written by Jill W. , March 23, 2009
written by Jill W. , March 23, 2009
Great job Suzanne! I agree with Kathy, you acted with a sense of responsibility whereas the octo-mom and her doctor certainly did not.
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written by Kathy Boyer , March 20, 2009
written by Kathy Boyer , March 20, 2009
Do you think the Doctor should have done more of a background check on the woman who had so many eggs put in? Is that too personal to find out she already had 6 kids and no money to pay her medical bills? Your case was so different and you acted responsibly, I feel like that woman didn't.
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written by Cheryl , March 17, 2009
written by Cheryl , March 17, 2009
What a well written, informative article. I hope to hear more. Could you please tell me how you found support with all that you went through? I imagine that most cannot grasp the emotional distress you and others go through.
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YOU GO GIRL!
written by molly b , March 15, 2009
written by molly b , March 15, 2009
I'm very impressed with your article,it's so encouraging to know that there is a magazine that allows women a voice in today's issues.Keep up the great work, Suzanne.
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written by Lisa H. , March 15, 2009
written by Lisa H. , March 15, 2009
Suzanne, I am looking forward to reading more about your experiences. I feel that your insight will give hope and encouragement to many.
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Thank you for your insight
written by Kara , March 14, 2009
written by Kara , March 14, 2009
Suzanne, Ever since the octo-mom episode happened I have been torn with my own views on the subject. Your insight of IVF is inspiring to say the least. I am so happy that IVF helped you in your journey to motherhood and can't wait to read the whole story. My best wishes to you and your family.
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written by Jennifer King , March 13, 2009
written by Jennifer King , March 13, 2009
This is a very inspiring and convincing article. I would love to read more about your journey.
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Senator Hudgens is being reactionary and is microfocusing on a plan that would only help keep people like Nadya Suleman from doing what she did and would, at the same time, prevent many of us infertiles from realizing our dreams to become mothers and families. He's being very shortsighted. Perhaps he needs to speak to a few women in the infertile trenches to get a grasp of our reality.