So this is a delicate subject.  Please ask the children to leave the room.  We’re going to talk about ….. S-E-X. While we would all like sex to be spontaneous, the reality is that for most couples, spontaneity is just not realistic.  Work, PTA meetings, after-school activities, fitness and cooking dinner can lead to a serious lack of time in the bedroom.

Therapists advise that you take time and schedule your time together.  Though many are still hesitant to take this step, couples should not be fooled into thinking that because sex is scheduled, it will automatically make it boring.  Planning out your romantic encounters can often be rewarding, especially if you are prepared with all the necessary goodies, like candles, massage oils and lubricants.

Trigg Laboratories, manufacturers of intimacy products sent I Am Modern some for review. So here then are the comments from the reviewers (digested for the magazine):

Two thumbs up.  Enough said.

This was my first experience with this type of product and I was surprised how much we both liked it!

Trigg offers many different types of sexual wellness products and you’ll just have to go online to see them all, but one that was a favorite of one reviewer  (who was more willing to discuss it) was the Aromatherapy Massage and Bath Oils.  Here is how the company describes it:

Aromatherapy has been around for more than 6,000 years.  Known for altering a person’s mood or health, aromatherapy has been utilized as a great stress reliever in modern days. In addition to feeling good, the vitamin enriched natural oils of Inttimo glide on easily and leaves skin irresistibly soft and delicately scented for hours.  “We really stress the spa quality.  It is made with essential oils in a blend of natural oils including hemp, avocado, and kukui nut in a base of sweet almond oil,” says Michael Trygstad, president of Wet International, Inc.

Aromatherapy Massage and Bath Oils available in four scents:

• Romance-Fall in love with the alluring fusion of cedar-wood and patchouli
• Sensuality-Surrender to the sinful intermingling of ylang-ylang and tuberose
• Tranquility-Drift away with the calming blend of ginger and bergamot
• Forbidden Fruit-Indulge the senses in the mouth watering aroma of wild berries

Whether massaged into the skin, sprinkled in bath water, or used to pamper every inch of the body, Inttimo by Wet Aromatherapy Massage and Bath Oils will balance the mind, body and spirit.

Inttimo by Wet Aromatherapy Massage and Bath Oils are available online at www.drugstore.com and at most major U.S. drugstore chains such as CVS, Rite Aid and Duane Reed.

Here is what our reviewer said:

“My husband came home after being away for a week. To make matters worse he was stuck in the airport for over 12 hours. He was exhausted when he walked in the door.  I figured no better time than then to give him a nice relaxing massage.  We used the aromatherapy massage oil. The oil scent was pleasant and not ‘girlie’ at all. My poor guy was asleep less than 6 minutes after I started massaging his back."

The company is offering samples of their product. Go to their website http://www.stayswetlonger.com and click on Free Samples.